You meet a man from online… he’s handsome, he has kids too, and is divorced just like you. From the way he has written his profile he even seems like he… (GULP) gets women. Wow! That’s something new on Plenty of Fish. Most of these guys seem like they just want to show off their big fish. Are they compensating for something or what?
So you send him a wink as you cross your fingers, hoping he will respond. And guess what happens. He sends a message in less than five minutes. It’s sweet and here’s what he wrote:
I liked your profile and I’m writing to say hi.
I like that you know who you are and what you like – I am the same. I like that you are in shape and that you appreciate a man who knows how to take care of himself – both on the inside and outside. I like that you liked my profile.
How shall we proceed? Would you like to meet for coffee/drinks or talk on the phone first or exchange a few emails? Even though OKC says we are a match, we can only judge chemistry when face-to-face. Let me know?
OMG! I’m pretty sure he likes me! What a great email. You give him your number and he calls right away. This guy knows a good thing when he sees it. YOU! This law of attraction stuff really works.
You’re out to brunch the eggs benedict are great and the conversation is amazing. But you’ve had wonderful first dates before and you never hear from greendad205 or Italianstallion again.
What happened? You don’t want this one to get away either. So there is one simple thing you can do after your date that will give him the right signals. How to let a guy know you like him is easy. But if you’ve EVER let a man take advantage of you, don’t do it again.
When you do this simple trick it will do 3 things inside of him. It will make him
- Feel your body next to his
- Feel like you need him
- Feel like a man
What to know what it is? When you are walking out of the restaurant after he opens the door for you…
And then… SLOWLY and SENSUALLY put your arm in his arm.
Men LOVE this. It’s easy and you get to feel his manly muscles. It will give you and him just a little physical connection that he totally craves. So don’t forget on your next date with the man, let him feel like a man and it will make you feel like a woman.
I know you can do everything just fine all by yourself, but is that what you really want? Or do you want to let a real man into your life? Learn the keys to getting a man hooked before he even meets you!