How To Stop An Obsession.
Have you ever been obsessed with a man and find that he’s just not giving you what you want or need? But you are still obsessed with him?
This has happened to almost every woman I know. It’s so easy to live in a fantasy and not look at what is really happening when you have an obsession with a man. You maybe went on a couple of dates and everything seems just peachy.
And then he might back off, and things aren’t quite so peachy. But you put on your smiling face and pretend everything is as tasty as peach pie. But in that yummy pie face of yours, he can sense your obsession with him. He feels it because we are all connected on an energetic level. Especially when we have an attachment. Especially if he’s really handsome and we feel something for him.
You can stop your obsession with a man with 3 easy steps.
- Recognize it.
You are aware that something feels off balance. He’s not giving much to you, yet you still think about him all the time. He’s the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning and the last thing you think of before drifting off to sleep. This is one of the first steps to break an obsession.
- You want to sense the cords.
You feel it. He feels it. That’s why he is running away, because you have an obsession with him. You are giving him your time energy, and love. Be aware of what is happening.
- You want to cut the cords.
These cords are powerful and can scare a many. He might not realize that is what is happening, but he feels it. You can cut the cords yourself, or you can see Reiki practictioners, Barbara Brennen Hands of Light Healers (one of my personal favorites) and the Cutting the cords toolkit. All these methods are effective. Having a downloadable mp3 you can listen to any time is very beneficial so it becomes second nature and is energetically wired in to your brain.
When you cut the cords when you have an obsession with a man, it can be painful. You might not want to let go. You resist it. One of the reasons you resist is because you want to control what he is doing. Especially if he is doing something that you perceive as wrong. This can be not calling you as much as you like or not calling you at all.
You send out these energetic cords from you and literally try to capture him in your energy. You need to release him so you can both serve your highest purpose. Controlling someone with your energetic cords is not a form of love, it is a form of control.
I don’t know anybody who wants to be controlled. You can stop the obsession by cutting these cords, it will be very beneficial to your spiritual life and his. When you cut the cords, you are basically surrendering to the divine. You will be letting go of control of what you think should be happening. The universe is conspiring to shower you with blessings of your higher purpose.
When you realize you have an obsession, you can make the choice to change how you feel. You can change how you will react to him and a situation. When you cut the cords, it doesn’t mean you can’t ever see or talk to him. But you will release the unhealthy cords.
In a healthy relationship cords will also form. These loving cords will be shared and not controlling in any way. There will be a flow between you. You will feel lighter and not afraid of the unknown. When you choose to stop your obsession over a man you are choosing to live your best life. If may take a little time, but today is the beginning of the rest of your amazing life!