How To Talk To A Man. In 5 Easy Steps.
Do you ever feel overwhelmed when you are attracted to a man? Do you feel totally confused and just don’t know what to say? You are not alone. Almost every woman I’ve spoken with has felt this way at one time or another. Even the most confident beautiful women in the world have been nervous around that man that makes their heart go pitter-patter. If you don’t know how to talk to a man, following these 5 easy steps will help you get into your real self that he will find irresistible. You can also sign up for this free video and learn how to speak to a man from “the man.”
- Ground yourself.
When you see a guy that makes your heart sing and your insides suddenly warmer, it can feel so confusing. What do I say? What should I do? The first thing you need to do in ground yourself when you are talking to a man. Well, how am I supposed to do that you might ask? Being present in your body is the key. If you feel all squishy, out of your body and all in your mind when you are talking to a guy, the first step you need to remember is to breathe. Ahhhh…Take a deep breath and connect to yourself and how you feel. On the count of 3. 1.2.3. Take a deep breath in and feel your body.
- Be authentic.
If you want to know how to talk to a man, the second thing to remember is to be yourself. You don’t want to try to impress him with anything but your pure sassy, sexy and fun-loving self. Be you. Be feminine and be courageous. Even if he gives you butterflies. You want him to see you. He is a witness to the awesome feminine Goddess that you came to earth to be. When you talk to a man you are interested in, you don’t want to pretend to be someone else.
Nothing will brighten a man’s day more that an authentic woman who shows her smile. Your smile shows the world that you are already happy and don’t need a man to make you feel that way. If you are concerned about your teeth not being white enough, go out an get some white strips. Whatever you do don’t forget to shine your light by smiling when talk to a man. Any man, even the ones you aren’t interested in. Just keep smiling, because when you do, your body remembers what it is like to be happy, and it will make you instantly feel happier!
- Talk about how you feel.
When you talk to a man, you don’t want to over analyze anything. Just be present and talk about how you feel in the moment. If you feel nervous, you can even say “I think you are so handsome, and I feel a little nervous.” We may have been taught to stuff down our feelings and pretend that everything is just peachy. I know it’s hard to be honest all the time, especially with a man you are attracted to, but you’ve got to try. He will appreciate your honesty and he will feel comfortable with you.
Appreciate the moment you are in. Forget about the past and the future. Appreciate the color or his eyes and the way you feel. Use all of your senses. Hear his words. Feel the warmth of your coffee and really taste it. Run your fingers through your hair and appreciate how it feels. When you talk to a man appreciate yourself for being brave enough to be there. Appreciate him being in your presence.
Connect to your body with your breath. Appreciate the moment and don’t worry about what to say. Put on your smile and tune into you heart. Open your heart and be your true self.