[button type=”big” color=”red”] Q[/button] I don’t know why. I waited 3 days to give him some time to cool off then I texted him today. I asked why he was mad and he would not tell me. He said he wanted me to be mad too. Later I told him I wanted to better myself and wanted to know what I did wrong so I could fix it. I asked for help and that’s when he stopped answering. What the heck is going on!?!?!? Please explain this!
[button type=”big” color=”red”] A[/button] It’s so frustrating when a guy won’t communicate and you’re left feeling totally confused.
That’s great you want to better yourself, but don’t better yourself for him, better yourself for YOU! That is the best thing you can do.
Bettering yourself won’t “fix” your relationship or whatever happened.
You gave him cool off time, so you knew something was going on right?
I recommend not contacting him. At all. Seriously.
I know it’s so hard when you’re all wrapped up in a guy, so you’ve gotta take care of YOU and take your focus OFF of HIM.
Do not call.
Do not text.
Do not send email.
If he won’t communicate with you, talking at him will not solve any problems. Trying to fix something won’t make this guy hear you. What will make him hear you is when he doesn’t hear you.
Your actions will speak louder than words. By not contacting him, you will be showing him that you are a strong amazing woman who doesn’t “need” him or want to try to fix anything.
Take this time to write all the crap that is coming up in your feelings and your heart. Cry. Hit your pillow if you are mad. It’s OK if you are mad.
Take this time to take care of you. Take bubble baths and be gentle with yourself. Go get a pedicure or buy a new dress that makes you feel like a million bucks! Hang out with your friends.
If he contacts you, then you can have a conversation. But for now, it’s time to take care of yourself, and start flirting with other guys. Or at least be open to the idea of meeting new men.
Keep me posted or message me if you have any other questions.