You are reading this, so you are probably single and looking, right? I want to give you insider’s tips directly from men and what they are looking for when they see when they are online. This is the first step… You main profile picture has gotta rock!
If you are a women, you will probably have to sift through a lot of messages but if you want to attract good men this is the first thing they are going to see. You.
Men are very visual and they want to see you. That’s it. According to eHarmony, people who uploaded more than 4 pictures got the most inquiries, and the least amount of response was from narrow pictures you could tell someone was cropped out, maybe people think it is your ex!
A study (Tracy & Beall, 2011) analyzed the interest of attractiveness in men and women with different pictures. Guess what… Men found the most attractive women to be happy.
So this means you need to be smiling. This is key especially in your main profile picture. Men want to be with a woman that is already happy, so get busy and do something fun and smile, and don’t forget to have a friend take a picture of you while you’re at it. Women generally have around 6 pics on their online dating profile.
When you are looking into the camera and smiling, it shows the men that you are happy, and that’s what everyone wants right? To be with a partner that is happy.
So if you are not happy, do whatever it is that makes you feel good, not just to meet men online. If you need help with your online dating profile…
Being happy is about you.
You deserve to be happy. And you certainly deserve love.
Take care of yourself and be happy and this will make meeting happy good men effortless because you attract what you are into your life.
So get happy.
Live life to the fullest.
Do something that makes you feel good.
Post pictures of your most happy self and you will be on your way to getting the love you want.