I was chatting to a man in a restaurant and he asked me what I do. I was told him I help people with their online dating profiles and coach singles (and people in relationships), on their path to love., and he said, “So you lie about these people?” Say what?!?!
I believe that when people come to me for help, they are coming from a very vulnerable place. These people want something different in their life and they are seeking outside help to make their lives better. Does this sound like you?
I told him about the questionnaire I send out and how I focus on the good qualities of these people, and he responded, “Honey everyone lies, don’t you know that? It’s basic psychology.” Eeeewwww….
Then he continued “I love that about you young women… your naivety.” Needless to say I graciously exited the conversation.
This comment left a bad taste in my mouth and I was happy to eat something to take my focus elsewhere. I’m going to make an educated guess that this guy is lying to himself and doesn’t understand communication, women or human nature.
I believe people are good and are doing the best that they can with the knowledge they have inside of themselves. And they are ALL coming from a vulnerable place of wanting to change what is happening in their lives because they are tired of being lonely. If you want to know how to make a man love you read this…
It’s good to have an outside source that isn’t biased and can help you see YOUR good qualities, especially if you have low self-esteem and have a hard time seeing the goodness in yourself. One of my clients wrote to me “Your profile makeover even made me like myself!” I love this, because that is what I wish for each and every one of you.
So today I want you to think about a couple of questions.
- What do you want different in your life?
- What are you going to do about it?
If you are feeling lonely or insecure look somewhere where you can gain insight from someone who has been there, done their homework and understands your pain, what people are looking for and the dynamics of relationships.
Sometimes we can’t see what is really going on with us, and what we are doing that isn’t serving our highest good. We’ve learned from people who had no idea how to have healthy relationships. So
If you feel like you have failed in your relationships, you can learn to overcome failure and get back on top again. You just need to get rid of limiting beliefs that are holding you back in your love life. Whether you are single or in a relationship there is help out there that is just perfect for you. If this resonates with you and you are ready to take your life to the next level, please reach out to me. I know I can help you love yourself and get the love you want.
I have helped clients go from getting no dates… to getting great dates… to having great relationships with a partner that is right for them. You just need to learn the right tools, and kick the old habits and beliefs in the pants! When we work together we can uncover your truest desires and make them happen! It’s time to love yourself and get the love you want!
Please contact me for exclusive coaching to help you be your best self and get the love you truly desire.