So… you’ve been single for a while with a few mediocre dates— and it seems like you haven’t had sex in a year (actually, it’s probably been more than a year). And hopefully, you anticipate the day of being with a man that turns you on again— someday. The best way to attract a man is to get in touch with your feminine side.

When you take care of your feminine side a good masculine man will treat you like you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to him. Because you will make him feel like a man— and that’s a good thing.

It all starts with feeling good about yourself and getting in touch with your femininity.

The guy you went out with last week that talked about his mom way too much was not Mr Right. There were no sparks there, at all.

You could never compete with his mom anyway. She is beautiful. She is still doing his laundry. And she is packing his fabulous prosciutto and fresh mozzarella bruschetta every day, and he’s 42 years old.

No thanks, you’re already busy enough packing your own kid’s lunch and you really don’t want to sign up for another kid with bigger even stinkier socks.

When you were waiting on pictures of the kids to be printed at the pharmacy, you noticed that condoms were buy one get one half off, and so were all the warming oils. Geez, you thought to yourself, there’s no reason to buy either of those items, unless I want to make greased up balloon animals at my son’s birthday party.

How many more dates will you have to go on anyway before you think about getting rid of the granny panties and hit up Victoria Secret? I think you need to get your booty to the underwear section ASAP!

There are 3 sensual steps to help you connect with your feminine side.

  1. First declutter your underwear drawer. Get rid of any old panties with holes. Stained period underwear is in the dumpster. Any panties that don’t make you feel feminine— donate them.
  2. Get yourself dressed up like you are going on a date. I know it’s weird, but for you to feel feminine, I want you to start with looking like a sensual woman. A skirt or dress— lipstick, mascara— the works.
  3. Hit the mall.

When you take care of how you look even under your clothes, where no one can see, you will feel great. Embrace every womanly curve you have and love your self, that is another step to being single and learn to love dating.

Get out the check card and head to the ladies department Go with some girlfriends or yourself and get fitted for the right size bra.

When your undergarments are comfortable AND sexy it’s even better. You will feel pampered and feminine in this silky department.

If you are tight on cash, buy some silky panties at Target or TJ Max.

When you are looking for some new skivvies you are treating yourself well. This is part of being feminine. Taking care of your Goddess insides.

When you feel good on the insides (and under your clothes) it will show on the outside.
Enjoy your experience of being in ultra-feminine section of the mall. Look at all the wonderful colors. Feel what colors your body would like to wear to make you feel the best. Hold the clothes up to your skin and ask the sales associate what colors look best on you. They are in the store to help you.

Try on everything to make sure you feel good in them. Pick out your favorites. You don’t need to spend $300. A few bucks will do.

When you are at home get a full length mirror and try on your new purchase.

Appreciate the silkiness and the sexiness that you can wear and only you will know— for now.

Look at yourself in the mirror and know that you are the feminine Goddess that men find irresistible.

Say This— I am a Goddess that men adore and I love myself. This may be hard for you. But tell yourself this anyway.

Appreciate your feminine curvy body and what it does for you.

If a man were to see you as you are now he would not be analyzing any cellulite or your you-think-are-weird shaped toes. He will be enamored with your feminine beauty.

This is what men crave. A woman who is comfortable with herself and feels sexy in the body she is blessed to be given.

When you put on your sassy black peek-a-boo bra and lace underwear, you will feel like a million bucks. And you didn’t have to spend a million.

You can get cute undies in any department store. When you feel good about yourself— down to your undies— your date will feel it.

It can be your little secret.

When you are feeling good and your self esteem is high, it’s really hard to have a bad time, no matter how boring your date is. At least you can have a chat with the cute waiter or make a new friend in the ladies room and only you will know about the new panties and how sexy they are.

Dating is so much fun especially when you have on cute undies. You can learn to love your life and yourself.