If you’ve been trying to figure out the best ways to attract a man you like with no luck— you probably don’t know these proven psychology love tips. It’s time to get started and learn how to magnetize the right man into your life.

There are a few proven tips that will make a man any man swoon, so you don’t have to date “that” guy!

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You instantly judge a man by many things— his hair, his eyes, his body language, and his voice. He is also judging you to see if you would be a good fit in his life as well. People don’t like to admit that judging is going on, but it definitely happens— especially when you are looking for love. 

When a man sees you that first 30 seconds matters. Research supports the theory that you know within the first 30 seconds if you want to sleep with him, and he knows if he wants to sleep with you. 

Helen Fisher, a Rutgers University anthropologist has studied hundreds of couples in love, and she discovered that it takes about one second to know if you find someone attractive or not. 

It’s instinctive, so you need to carry yourself the right way and give a man the right cues.

Use this pickup line

Want to know this secret? I bet you do. Hold onto your seat!

According to the Science Of People, this not-so-impressive pickup line, “Hello. How are You?” worked better than any other lines in a study that had hundreds of dating interactions. 

Can you believe it? Something so simple can make a world of difference in your future with your man-to-be. Those 4 words could change your life if you use them at the right time with the right man. 

Who would have thought it? 

Use Level I Available body language

What does “available” body language mean? It means… I am ready, willing and totally ready for us to connect. This is flirting at its finest!

Giving a man the right body cues will let him know that you are interested and available. He may not notice these things on a conscious level, but his animal side will surely take notice. Here are the big available woman body language cues

  • Eye gazing
  • Smiling
  • Uncrossed arms
  • Keeping your hands out of your pockets
  • Uncrossed legs
  • Looking up and away from your phone or the floor

These are the first few things in the flirting recipe that you have to practice (if you don’t naturally “get it”), to attract a man to you. It is part of tapping into your open feminine receptive state. 

Men love these cues, so get them burned into your memory.

Use Level II Available Body Language & More

Learn toward the person you are interested in

It lets them know that you want to engage even more. If you are in a group of people and one special man has caught your attention, lean toward him so he knows that he has piqued your interest. This is one of the most powerful dating techniques.

Play the tilt-o-whirl.

Men love curves of a woman and you can add more curves to your body by simply tilting your head to the side. This also shows that you are paying attention to them and are responding to their conversation. This is a secret psychology flirting tip thatattracts a man  to you.

Make him feel like your hero


Men get turned on when they feel important in your world. If you value their opinion, time, or feelings, YOU become more attractive to him. There are 2 ways to do this. 

Nonverbal Cues

Point your feet toward them with your body. If someone is talking and it looks like you are facing their friend, you will look like you are more interested in them. 

Keep your focus on your point of interest with your eyes, your body and your feet! This lets them know that they have your attention and this inspires his attention. You can also use your words to let a man know that you are interested and available. This will help you decrease rejection in romantic situations

Verbal cues

Ask him engaging questions 

People love to talk about themselves and when you ask them questions in a fun engaging way it inspires him to open up to you. 

Don’t make it like an interview, keep the conversation going back and forth. If he asks you if you about your job ask about his and follow up and ask why he loves his financial planning business. 

If he talks about football, you can ask what he likes about his favorite team.

Keep your body language and your heart open when you are getting to know a potential partner. With these cues you will be well on your way to amazing dates and increase your potential to have amazing love! You can also check out this short video to make any man addicted to you.