How To Text Him So He’ll Message You Back!

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There is always the question— Should I text him?

You should message him— As long as you know how to text him the right way.

There are more wrong ways than right way and I don’t want you to be misinformed! Get out your phone or notebook and take some notes.

How To Text Him The Right Way Is Not To Expect An Instant Response

But if you do it right, he won’t be able to wait too long to respond. Playing hard to get and playing games with texting is a big no-no.

If a guy sends you a message don’t wait for a certain amount of days or hours before you respond. If you are into a man— Don’t make him wait for a week.

Respond when you’re not busy. Busy can be when you are on the phone with your mom, painting your toes or eating dinner.

Don’t sit by the phone waiting for a guy to text. Keep living your life and don’t make your focus about any man.

Keep your focus on yourself first!

One Way To Text Him Is To Be Interesting

Don’t open the conversation with

“Hi,” or

“How are you?”

Just saying “Hi,” it shows him you haven’t put much thought into your message. It doesn’t set you apart from any other women he may be texting. You will be a Goddess to him.

It doesn’t give him anything to be curious about. You want him to be curious.

Don’t Text Him After You’ve Gone Out Drinking

You know what a 2 am text says to a guy? Hey baaaabeeeyy. I’m awake and available.

Or it says that you don’t value his possible asleep time.

Or it says, “I’m wasted!”

Hopefully, he has a job and is sleeping before 2 am usually.

When you’ve got a buzz on your logical thinking parts will be tossed right out the window.

You might say something you wish you wouldn’t have said the next day.

Be Positive When You Text Him, Chica!

When you message him, it’s not the right place to complain. If you want to b*tch about something— Talk to your girlfriends about the issue.

Not a new flirty potential boyfriend.  

When you are texting with a man— Wait till your sober.

Don’t Worry About How Many Other Women Are Texting Him

Worrying about how many texts are coming from someone else’s phone can crush your self-esteem.

Because there probably are other women vying for his attention but these kinds of texts will get him to ask you out on a first date.

If you like him, there must be something good about him.

Even if other women are texting him, who cares? You don’t. You are just getting to know him— Don’t worry about it.

Until you are exclusive, you can message more than one man at a time. I highly suggest this!

If you are talking to several men at a time, it will keep you feeling safe until something more exclusive develops with a man.

How To Text Him In A Playful Way

You can say something made you remember him. Don’t be too serious. Make him wonder about you. 

Here Are Some Great Examples of How To Text Him:

I heard a song that reminded me of you.

He’s going to wonder what song it was. Was it dirty? Sweet? What the heck song was it and why did you think of me when you heard it?

You were in my dream last night.

You know where his mind will go. Straight into the gutter— And that’s OK. This is part of flirting in the early stages. 

While I was shopping today, I thought of you.

He’s going to hope you were shopping at a Victoria Secret store. I’m sure he would love to hear about. This text is going to make him imagine you wearing a lacy bra I’m sure of it.

I saw a handsome guy at the mall, and I thought it was you.

He’s going to be thinking . . . Who was this guy? Is he more handsome than me? Does she that guy is more handsome than me? What is she thinking?

You are my favorite distraction. I can barely get any work done today.

This text will put a grin on his face. He’s going to be wondering what you are thinking about. It will stroke his ego in the right way and keep him interested.

The gym made me really sweaty.

You know what he’s going to be thinking about this one too. Does she get sweaty and freaky between the sheets? This one will make his mind go reeling.

When I think of you, I can’t wipe the smile off my face.

Oh yeah, that’s right.

Guess what I’m thinking about right now . . .

His mind will go to where it wants to go, and that is a good thing.

I wonder if we meet if we will drive each other crazy or drive each other crazy?

He’s going to be hoping it’s the first one— or the second one.

I love these kinds of texts because they don’t require a response, but they will probably get one.

Texting has its place and makes your texting hit him in the right place. His emotional non-analyzing place. This emotional area is the place that creates an attraction for a man.

When you text him the right way it will create an attraction for you. These texts will make him want to meet you in real life— like yesterday. If you want help creating attraction check this out!


About The Author

Dina Colada

Dina is the founder and love ambassador of My Love Tribe. She is on a mission to help you create epic LOVE in your life. Learn how to heal your heart, flirt, change your negative beliefs and find the real love that you are looking for!

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