Dina Colada

Questions to Find Out If They’re Really a Keeper—Let’s Get Real!

Couple toasting drinks at a restaurant table.

Hey there, lovebirds! ???? Dating can be a whole journey. The key to figuring it all out? Asking the right questions! ???? These questions help you see if your values, dreams, and vibes are totally in sync. Whether you’re curled up with your fave smoothie (mine’s a green one with a hint of pineapple) or […]

Depression During The Holidays: How To Get Through It

Depression

So the holidays are the time when we want to spend time with loved ones, but sometimes — we just don’t feel like it. There are ways of dealing with depression during the holidays, even when it’s not practical. Who wants practical anyway? I want to help you deal with depression by being impractical! Being […]

Taking On a Younger Man – Cougars Confess Their Secrets

Older woman and young man in cozy setting

Dating a younger man? Are you serious?! Oh, honey! The dating game has seriously heated up with older women and younger men creating sparks everywhere. These fierce ladies are chucking the tired old dating playbook out the window and sashaying into the exciting realm of cougar dating. This sizzling dating niche is a hit for […]

The Ancient Goddess Secrets To Attract A Man

Secrets To Attract A Man

If you have ever wondered how to attract a man that you are interested in— the key is in using your ancient feminine wisdom. The properties of static electricity are like this: There are positive charges and negative charges. Positive and negative energy. Positive and negative charges are opposite, just like men and women in […]

How to Travel Like a Local With These Tips For Women Traveling Alone

Tips For Women Traveling Alone

As a woman who has made a habit of traveling alone, the moments I felt most liberated and lightest were reading familiar stories on foreign pavements and greenery. I put on my backpack and put on my most comfortable clothes, I sew my eyes up with amazement and excitement, and while I was visiting historical […]

Online Dating News: Bad & Good!

Online Dating News

Sometimes, you’ve got to take the good with the bad I got some bad news today, and some good online dating news! I’m going to start with the good online dating news first. This is an email I received from an online profile makeover client. She sent this two days after I sent it to […]

Embrace love for yourself [And eliminate self-sabotage!]

Embrace love for yourself

When I wake up in the morning, I feel like I’m not good enough. I feel like I have lost control over everything in my life. I feel like I’ve been running on a hamster wheel for 20-30-40 or more years. I am not good enough.I am not good enough to have my needs met. […]

You can meet your partner’s parents over Zoom

partner's parents over Zoom

Meeting your partner’s parents is a scary step. Let’s go ahead and get that out of the way. And during a stay-away-from-each-other pandemic where the meeting will inevitably have to happen over video chat: it can be, somehow, even more intimidating. But if your sweetheart is so into you that they’re ready for the next […]

How To Be A Confident Woman — The 1 Thing You Need

Confident Woman

You’ve been married for 12 years in a mediocre marriage. It seemed like 25 years. You’ve been sleeping alone for an entire year by yourself— Except for those nights that one of the kids had a nightmare about the creepy OO Ghost from the poster in first grade again. And you want to learn how […]

Dating long distance: 3 things to keep in mind

Dating long distance

So you’ve been on OK Cupid for a while, and you’ve gone out with at least one guy a week for a few months.  It seems like by now you’ve gone out with every man within a 25-mile radius of your house. Is it time to look for someone far and start dating long distance? […]